An ounce of experience is worth a ton of theory. —Benjamin Franklin I make no claim that what you will read in the following pages is the only way to begin. It is, however, the best way that I have seen so far. Before we delve into this subject, I want to say a few words about the language we have been conditioned to use. There are two phrases that will not serve you well as you move forward: “church service” (or simply “the service”) and “going to church.” Now that